The Single Life
advice....
ok...so i am a 34 yr old woman...self sufficient own home....
i have had countless bad relationships because i have just rushed in head on then regretted them one way or another!!!!
so my last birthday i decided that i was not going to do the relationship thing for a while and was just going to have some fun 
so this fun led to a 26 yr old from the gym sending me some messages on FB and then we met up for a little encounter (well he got what he wanted i didnt!!!) and then i hear nothing from him for a couple weeks but i do see him at the gym....
i then get some more texts from him after a few weeks which lead to nothing....but bthen last week he was texting again and popped round one evening...for yeat agin the same (me left with nothing AGAIN) and now i have not heard from him!!!!!
now i dont want anything other than this from him...but i dont want to be just ignored...or am i looking at this all wrong????
should i just forget all this happened and move on from it all??????? really not sure how to read this situation 
help
advice....
ok...so i am a 34 yr old woman...self sufficient own home....
i have had countless bad relationships because i have just rushed in head on then regretted them one way or another!!!!
so my last birthday i decided that i was not going to do the relationship thing for a while and was just going to have some fun
so this fun led to a 26 yr old from the gym sending me some messages on FB and then we met up for a little encounter (well he got what he wanted i didnt!!!) and then i hear nothing from him for a couple weeks but i do see him at the gym....
i then get some more texts from him after a few weeks which lead to nothing....but bthen last week he was texting again and popped round one evening...for yeat agin the same (me left with nothing AGAIN) and now i have not heard from him!!!!!
now i dont want anything other than this from him...but i dont want to be just ignored...or am i looking at this all wrong????
should i just forget all this happened and move on from it all??????? really not sure how to read this situation
help
Hi Litza,
I think women are often caught between being independent and yet tied to the roots of their gender. We aren't really made, as the female animal of our species to have these kinds of relationships. As a modern woman it's often a personal choice that suits their lifestyle and some of their needs.
The instinctive animal that you are will want more while the modern independent woman will want to be free to do your own thing.
I think this may explain why you are wanting something more from him. I suspect it will be rare but possible to have both the freedom and the feedback from someone in this situation.
Ask for what you want and see if he is willing to provide it. You are free to move on if he cannot or will not.
Owly x
