Hey so im new to this , the UK one anywway...
i just need advice on what to do , me and my ex broke up about a month ago? .... she broke up with me, although weve broken up twice before, .... i was reluctant to give her my trust ( past relationship issues), and when i did... she backed off , and it was a bit of a yoyo relationship... well we broke up, and i made it clear to her i wanted her back. infact i was the needy ex, i was probably annoying and seemed immature , but i just didnt want to let her go? shes found someone else now, i dont think its serious, rather quick ... do you think it could just be a rebound? shes been playing mind games with me , and us girls are the best at that! , shes rubbing it in atm that shes got someone , asking me what id do if i seen them out together, ... i know shes trying to make me jealous , so that must mean she cares? unless she just likes being mean? ...ive tried the not text her approach , and she texted me... ive basically poured my heart out to this girl and shes just been harsh back, .. she says shes over me , but after shes told me shes with this girl shel ask if im ok? ... of course im not she knows im not , ... ive been honest with her and ive told her how i feel , but i cant help and feel shes lying to herself? or is that me wishful thinking... shall i cut contact with her? ive told her i cant do this anymore... she replied 'thank god' she thinks shes done nothing wrong, and she cant see why im hurt that shes being so mean?
it sounds childish , stupid little games.. but i dont want to play games , im devistated ,i seriously want her back, although now im just thinking shes playing games with me? us girls also say what we dont really mean , 9/10 , ....don't we?
