[#1]

I am 37 happliy married (very happliy) have 3 young children.

We have a very good sex life, well I think so mostly 4 times a week and adventurous too.  I have only had 2 sexual partners hubby included.

My husbands fantasy's is that i sleep with someone else an affair that he knows of.  Please dont judge? 

But I have recently been sorting out in my head an issue - I fancy his friend, not best but someone he knows.  Hubby mentioned a few times that younger one likes me and I fobbed him off, and lives local and is single. Just dont know what it is about him. Also 10 years younger!   As friends through hubby we have texted in the past nothing unusal, until Sunday; I needed to text him, thought for the past few years that he liked me, but was never sure.  Then few texts messages later, I said it - that he wasn't too bad on the eye!  he replied the same and my heart jumped.  He's liked me but not said and stayed away because he likes me.  Then texts where back and fourth.

Do I ask hubby could he be the one to full fill his fantasy?

Do I stay away?

Why do I need to feel this way when I am truely happy - 17 years together.  Yes, hard times have been involved but like most.

Younger one's job is around my local area driving and I'm just wanting to see him and now Im dreaming of him too - its getting worse.

Do I delete his number and tell him why?

Please very confused in love with hubby very much but dont know why Mr. young is taking me attention so much.

[#2]

I am 37 happliy married (very happliy) have 3 young children.

We have a very good sex life, well I think so mostly 4 times a week and adventurous too.  I have only had 2 sexual partners hubby included.

My husbands fantasy's is that i sleep with someone else an affair that he knows of.  Please dont judge? 

But I have recently been sorting out in my head an issue - I fancy his friend, not best but someone he knows.  Hubby mentioned a few times that younger one likes me and I fobbed him off, and lives local and is single. Just dont know what it is about him. Also 10 years younger!   As friends through hubby we have texted in the past nothing unusal, until Sunday; I needed to text him, thought for the past few years that he liked me, but was never sure.  Then few texts messages later, I said it - that he wasn't too bad on the eye!  he replied the same and my heart jumped.  He's liked me but not said and stayed away because he likes me.  Then texts where back and fourth.

Do I ask hubby could he be the one to full fill his fantasy?

Do I stay away?

Why do I need to feel this way when I am truely happy - 17 years together.  Yes, hard times have been involved but like most.

Younger one's job is around my local area driving and I'm just wanting to see him and now Im dreaming of him too - its getting worse.

Do I delete his number and tell him why?

Please very confused in love with hubby very much but dont know why Mr. young is taking me attention so much.

[#3]

You are going on dangerous ground!

Its going to stir up insecure feelings on his part... or it would be a hallpass for him to have an illicit encounter... if he has not already!

If you were truly happy, you would have flat out refused and stated that you take your marriage vows seriously.

[#4]

I agree with controversial girl.

There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality and going through with something like that could highlight any tiny niggle in the foundation of your marriage. Things like this rarely go well for all parties. 

[#5]

Hey go for it, but u must tell your husband everything (it sounds like you do, but are holding things back at the moment), I can relate but it was the other way round I wanted him to sleep with another girl. It was a one off, oops no two, and it only made our relationship stronger and our already great sex life amazing.

[#6]

If it was me I wouldn't do it...  Speaking from personal experience unless your relationship is watertight it can cause insecuritiesand usually the fantasy is better than the reality anyway!