[#1]

Hi. I've been married for 6 months and I am very happy. I had a works out on Wednesday where I got way too drunk and kissed a collegue. I would never ever do anything like this usually. I don't know whether to tell my DH. It's eating away at me but I really don't want to lose him.
Thanks

[#2]

Hi. I've been married for 6 months and I am very happy. I had a works out on Wednesday where I got way too drunk and kissed a collegue. I would never ever do anything like this usually. I don't know whether to tell my DH. It's eating away at me but I really don't want to lose him.
Thanks

[#3]

I would say don't tell him. There is really no point and while this feels like a big issue to you, to others it could be something they would do without it leading to anything or meaning very much. Something they would do as a joke. Your heart wasn't involved and to say anything while you feel so guilty would only make things worse. Those who do this kid of thing as a bit of fun would be able to talk of it freely and their partners, who know what they can be like would be more likely to take it with a pinch of salt, knowing it meant nothing to the one who did the kissing. Let it go, learn from it and let time distance you from the event. Owly x

[#4]

I don't think you should tell him either. The only thing it will achieve is to cause your DH upset. Put it behind you and make sure nothing like it happens again.

[#5]

Well before either of you responded I actually told him. I work in the same room as the guy and knew seeing him every day would just make the guilt worst. I couldn't not tell him as I hate secrets. He was pretty mad as I expected but he's OK now and I've promised it won't happen again. I'm so relieved but thanks for you kind advice anyway. Silly me! Xx

[#6]

Glad it's all worked out ok for you.

[#7]

Hi,

They do say that the answers to our problems lie within us and it sounds like you found your own. I strongly believe that what we end up doing is what we are meant to do, especially if we didn't see something that might have delayed our own decision.

I think you'll both have learned something from this and that's the main thing.

I'm really pleased that you are now able to feel calmer.

Owly x