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In a bit of a pickle

bubblyblondie01 — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 15:34:48 GMT

Bit of a long story but I have a friend from my local gym. We met at gym and play badminton together. We meet up from time to time and get on like a house on fire.

Anyway, she got this promotion at work and asked if I would like to go out to celebrate. So said yes and we went out for a meal. It was a saturday night and we were in town so we went to a club for a dance afterwards and got really drunk. Anyway, took a taxi back to hers which was closer and she invited me in.

It was about 2 but I wasn't tired and was feeling on a real high so went to her place. Anyway we were flirting quite a bit and she kept going on about my legs. And started saying stuff like I bet you are really smooth all over, etc.

I am a real sucker for flattery and she made me feel really sexy. Anyway, long story short, we ended up in bed.

That was last weekend and feeling both elated and confused. Never been with a girl before and don't even know if this is a serious thing for her. And I am married. eek.

What do I do?

Re: In a bit of a pickle

sassy0ne85 — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 07:05:56 GMT

Hmmm so interesting.well talk to her openly and clarify you are married.i take it she already knew.may even have just been a one nite thing.lmao.hmmm hun i dont think its too serious.just talk to her. Hope it all worked out.

Re: In a bit of a pickle

bubblyblondie01 — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 15:46:40 GMT

Hi, she did know. I called round to see her to talk, and we ended up in bed again. The trouble is as soon as she starts touching and kissing me - it can be really hard to resist.

I do feel bad though. I could get into a lot of trouble over this. I would die if anyone I knew found out.

Re: In a bit of a pickle

headoverfeet88 — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 11:27:11 GMT

think about how you feel? Do you feel better being with a woman than your husband?

I am in a similiar situation ...hope it all works out x

Re: In a bit of a pickle

rebeccalou88 — Tue, 06 Nov 2012 09:35:58 GMT

Hi Both,

I know this hasn't been commented on in a long time but I wondered what happened in both of your situations?

I have found myself in the same situation and would really like someone to talk to about this.

Thanks :-)